An upscale, on-premise couples club. We are a non-smoking facility except outside away from the building in a designated area. There is a cabinet with clean sheets for the beds. I'd really appreciate people who have gone there sharing their experiences and what we might expect for our first time. Please bring your own lock.
People that complain about people having sex in a swingers club are just wannabee prudes, maybe they are pissed off because nobody wanted to party with them? The other couples there were outgoing and friendly as well. The dress code is posted on the website and it's simple. Wednesday and Friday Night Party's are open to Couples, Single Men and Single Women. So, we have been looking at Crave. We offer a buffet of hot and cold appetizers, fruits, vegetables and snacks to keep you fuelled for your night of fun. We host weekly events that cater to couples and select singles who seek an erotic environment to live out their fantasies and offers and approves different types of membership to create that environment. The first where you enter has a pool table and usually some snacks which are complimentary.
The etiquette questions are particularly helpful, especially about the towels and bed sheets. However anyone using the beds will have a view of you. Someone posted that they didn't like the part of town it was in. Much better than any club in Dallas. Being a member is the only way they will send you the exact location, and members aren't supposed to tell non-members. We both felt it was fun, but the place was really not for us. No torn jeans or with holes in them.
Single men are not allowed at Crave most of the time. No R4R or Other Connection Posts Please do not post looking for people, including play partners, mentors, meetup participants, or discussion group members. If anyone is pushy you can let the staff know and things will be fixed very quickly. Secrets are even juicier when shared with friends! I think we found our home away from home. It is assumed that if you are playing downstairs that you want others to watch. I've seen plenty of mentions online, but nothing really details what to expect there.
The music varies depending on the night and theme, but is usually pretty decent overall. Can't wait to go back! Expect to see nude women downstairs at some point in the night. I would assume using them to charge a toy wouldn't be a problem, but best to ask the staff first. We don't live in the area but are already trying to figure out how soon we can get back and play again. Near the hallway opening is two rooms with locking doors. We also host Friday Night Party's from time to time and they are open to Couples, Single Men and Single Women. Please bring your own lock.
If you don't plan on meeting another couple there you will have to be willing to make the first move if you want to engage others. Would like to go back on a Saturday to evaluate the clientele. We have not been in a cpl yrs but let me say. We already registered for membership, but hit a really busy season with our jobs and have both been out of town for the last few months. Upstairs is lit dimmer than downstairs so you can't see much from a distance.
Located near downtown San Diego, we are easy to get to from anywhere in San Diego County and only 60 minutes from South Orange County and the Inland Empire. The age group is generally late 20's to early 40's. Whether you are looking for a place to play or just a place to meet some new people, Club Cave offers something for everyone. Men are only allowed upstairs if they are accompanied by a woman. On Saturday there were more people but same great clean, safe, friendly atmosphere. Take a look at the pix. This can actually be nice for newbies because you wont feel pressure at all.
We provide lockers for your use to store personal items. We are just the opposite. Crave has the highest attendance cost out of any lifestyle venue available in San Diego. Book a stay in one of our sensually decorated, custom condos and set your inhibitions free. They have a refrigerator to keep beer cold if need be.
I know that varies night to night, but that was our experience. There are couches, tables, and chairs available in both downstairs rooms to sit and drink or chat. It got hot and wild about Midnight all the rooms were packed and busy! You have to sign up as members before going there. Our first club experience and our only one in the lifestyle scene was Thad's on a whim. Thanks for writing in such detail. It's worth it but it can get costly.
They are marked male and female, but you can use either because they are single stalls with locking doors. We offer a buffet of hot and cold appetizers, fruits, vegetables and snacks to keep you fueled for your night of fun. One time there was a couple that brought their own hookah pipe and no one batted an eye. These are private rooms which anyone can use, but they get taken quickly. The club was clean, safe, lit where it needed to be and darker where you wanted. If you need a dedicated outlet in the play area it will be hard to come by.