Superman has nothing on you! I'm not about to give your opinions any more weight than you are mine. And what about them playing musical instruments, eh? I can't remember who said this quote but: 'It seems to be a human trait to become the thing you fight against'. People have forgotten this about history. The men that like to assume the alpha male are wasting their time. I only care about the women who like me. A Genuin person all through is like gold dust. When a family man steps up to be that family's spiritual leader, ah, then I, the woman, can focus on doing my job--being the heart of the relationship.
Toula: Thanks for the ideas ladies winks. They come up with grandiose ideas and implement them. I'll give you that one but my original point still holds a lot of weight. I always think he is covering a weak chin or some acne or other issue. Of course, there are exceptions, but that one devoted pleasant, attractive woman is probably in the Sahara somewhere.
Anyhow, I think it's disgusting when a guy doesn't trim down there simply because it limits my ability to go crazy on him. We should all try to be the best we can on a regular basis. Meanwhile there is a myriad of anecdotes telling me that it is. I shaved it and started getting dates very regularly again right away. Don't expect her to be a traitor or ask her to betray her gender.
I don't know why you're answering with such an attitude when I was presenting facts. But the reality is that numerous studies—including a recent of more than 12,000 people—have revealed that a lot of younger women do in fact prefer their romantic matches to be older. The husband can be manipulative too. We all have flaws no ones perfect so there will be downs… but the ups will be so worth it. I find him to be suitable for me because he is more serious and committed than most younger guys. I'm sure women don't mind getting fucked and eating million dollar meals.
Real women look past the exterior, and past judgement based on the context of ones consciousness. They're casually fucking and nexting dudes, because they can and it's fun. I repeat, it doesn't have to be expensive. Of course, there are some women out there who like wimpy, feminine guys, but as you may have noticed, those women are usually very masculine or unattractive. Why do you think these women reported that bi-sexual men made better lovers? Add to that the deep shame of having a natural body that sweats, sprouts hair, farts, develops calluses etc. We may not all need such a confirmation of our value, but we all want it. Has a man ever told you that you were terrible? I totally see this as a sacred responsibility, and I am happy, happy to take it up.
If you want to impress a man, have a fun conversation with him. Do you think you have what it takes to impress any woman? Seriously: who can't forget the most egregious age gap of all, when the white-hot 30 year-old Catherine Zeta-Jones was paired with a 69 year-old Sean Connery in the otherwise forgettable 1999 film Entrapment? I mean some dishes like beef bourguignon, potato au gratin, Indian curry, lasagna, and stuff like that. The goal here was to remove the potentially confounding elements of live social interaction smiling, physical attractiveness to see if they could isolate how much responsiveness—or niceness—played into attraction. Most guys will waste their entire life thinking that they have to look perfect to attract hot women, but the truth is that you can attract women in ways other than looks, money, height and social status. It could be something as simple as taking control of your group of friends or it could be something as ambitious as founding your own startup company. My father was such a boy.
That might be one reason women do not recognize it. Most of my female friends have found their enjoyable hobbies, I have a friend who does pottery and iron work, a friend who teaches belly dancing, another one who plays serious amateur tennis and goes to state tournaments. We aren't expected to bottle it up. Men absolutely love a woman who asks for help. Sex is about being desired. Linda: I placed my ex on the bed on all fours with his legs spread, I placed myself underneath him facing his penis but with a lot of pillows under me so that I wouldn't have to strain to suck on him. For women, it was just hair.
Do you honestly need more convincing? And this is where we differ without relenting beliefs. Just because a man has a strong sex drive does not give them the right to expect a women be responsible for his lack of self-control. Perhaps experiences run a bell curve distribution, with some outliers. I'm not a mysogynist, I love women and I love have sex with them. I find it very sexy when a man knows how to cook and not just a simple dish like boiled potatoes and fried eggs.
This huge age gap in a relationship is really difficult to handle and does not work out very well most of the time. But I can agree that some guys look good with beards while other look better being shaven. Focus too on what is going right in your life not always where it may be going wrong. So back to my original point. I'll keep bringing him to the edge until he finally can't take it anymore and throws me onto the bed and has his way with me. Do these men struggle more with coming out than gay men and if so, why? That's why so many of you will end up alone, or get cheated on, because your all superficial.