A reader, anonymous, writes 15 July 2008 : Does anal sex hurt? Start with a finger and feel around in there. You have to find a way to make yourself comfortable. It can be confusing to a woman why a man might want to have anal sex over vaginal sex. I mean you have to want to have someone stick their cock up there. See I date for love not sex newgrounds, surprise surprise.
An enema is always an option, but you're best off just going poop before the act. I slipped off my lovers robe and then his boxers so I could kiss the tip of his penis. That's an orgasm without touching my penis at all! Their products are sized to fit men's natural curves better while still being very feminine. A male reader, anonymous, writes 10 September 2009 : I disagree about going slow before pen and using fingers. I'll start with the easiest part, the physical act of fellatio. This isn't the case with anal sex.
From the guys view, not the girls you know guys have anuses as well. Also men tend to be a bit stronger and more aggressive than women so expect more wrestling and groping. This is where you can ask the manly men for their opinions on various topics. The anal opening, and the very-nearby prostate gland both have super-dense concentrations of nerve endings, like the head of the cock. Here is the website we found most useful.
The anus is surrounded by thousands of nerve endings, which interconnect with the nerves of the vagina and clitoris or the penis and prostate. I think a resonable amount is just fine! I will just mention some things as they come to mind so I can share my experience as fully as possible. A male reader, anonymous, writes 27 March 2008 : I am male and straight but i really need money and a guy is paying me to let him fuck me n stuff but i need to money and its alot of money. Every guy I've dated has requested anal at some point, even to the point of begging. I think it's an age thing, as I know several of my peers are of a similar mindset. Generally, it is uncomfortable and painful because of the hymen and anxiety, even though it can be comfortable, pleasurable and fun for some people.
I think heteros and homos could both learn to take things a bit slowly. It started from my feet and fingertips, and then spread throughout my body. When I say slow, I mean slow, inch by inch. For women, the physical pleasure in the anal region can be very enjoyable during sex. Fingers are fairly sharp objects, your not supposed to put sharp objects in your butt! This way, pressure sensations from a finger or penis can be transmitted through into the vaginal canal.
My whole body was buzzing with anticipation. Suffice it to say that I was successful. A male reader, anonymous, writes 27 January 2008 : I really love it! My upper thighs began to quiver as I broke out into a light sweat as the orgasm overtook me. That's what happens when someone starts to penetrate you unless you learn to relax that muscle. So my recomendation if you are a male taker-use plenty of lube, do it slowly, have a really good hard on before putting anything in, -don't force it in unduely-if it hurts excessively it's not entering at the correct angle, or you aren't relaxed enough. Anal tissue tears easily, creating a direct exchange of bodily fluids.
I do gay porn and I am a notorious bottom. A female reader, , writes 1 July 2009 : I Tried it yesterday and it was great it hurt at first but after a small time it felt awesome. And it must be done with lubrication and very gently. A bad anal experience is not only one that can result in damage to your body, but it can do severe damage to any relationship. There are actually two sphincters; the external and the internal. You don't get that experience with vaginal sex.
I hadn't done anything with a guy but oral up until then, and I had no idea what it would be like or that I should expect pain. I'd rather get my dick sucked. All I can imagine is your dick being squeezed into a wet sockem bopper. When I say 'comfortably' I mean it. But now she kinda likes it as normal sex vagina. If there is not a lot of talk about it beforehand, it can ruin even the strongest relationship.
And if you are intent on doing this. He feels bigger than ever and completely fills you up. A reader, anonymous, writes 31 August 2008 : Hey from a gay perspective, me and my boyfriend started having anal sex few months ago and it would hurt and we would have to take it easy, but now, my body just accepts it and so do I. That's what happens when someone starts to penetrate you unless you learn to relax that muscle. There is one slight prob though, even if you are clean down there it can still smell a bit during and after. Even with lube, you'll need to go through in order to help their anus and rectum to expand enough to be able to fit a finger or a penis comfortably. If you've ever been really scared for a moment, you've felt your sphincter tighten.
It was kind of hard to get him in at first. I really like the idea of anal sex, but when we try to have it I end up just enduring. Its good to use an enema or use a dildo prior to anal while showering to both open you up in a controlled environment and help clean you out. Seeing my body dressed in this sexy camisole, the sensation of my legs suspended in the air by lovers shoulders, feeling my head moving up and back on the mattress, the cool night air kissing my naked ass, the power of my man thrusting his cock inside of me, imagining that moment when my lover will releases all of his desire inside of me. If it hurts every time you do anal sex, eventually you are going to damage that area, and make it either hurt worse, or look very unpleasant. Well, if you want to, then by all means. Speaking of anal, If you guys havenât been to this site, you have got to see it.